Instead, we do better to shift our first date focus to two things: Both are important, regardless of the prospects of a future together.
We should be on a mission to discover new things about them and celebrate what we are learning.
Let yourself show a little excitement about the specific things you are getting to know about each other.
How To Learn More About Your Date I’ve found that having a few thoughtful questions ready can be a great help here.
You might not be a naturally curious person, or maybe you don’t like to ask questions.